Episode 100! A MONUMENTAL MOMENT!

” Don’t be out here hoping the ball is gonna go in! Know the ball is gonna go in” – Coach James Smith on putting in the work to KNOW you will succeed and not HOPE you will!

It is insane when I think of the humble beginnings of why I started this podcast, how I started it, and the great strides that it has made (even though we are STILL just getting started)!

This podcast started as a mere idea that I realized I had sat on far too long and I decided to take action. I was also activated, in a sense, to take action due to feeling a sense of responsibility to get this education out to the masses on how to have better relationship experiences and quickly move away from the unhealthy patterns and behaviors so many of them were allowing in their love lives…mainly ME included! From there, To Be Single or Not To Be was born!

As I reflect on this monumental moment of reaching 100 episodes of a podcast (some major tv shows don’t reach this) I know that the work has just begun! I know the power of love and I also know the power love has when it is had between two people who make a conscious effort and choice to wake up every day and put the work in to have a happy and healthy relationship based on intentionality. It is real. It can be done. It can be done by YOU. Yes, you. You just have to be willing to trust the process, implore patience in your journey, and KNOW that you are willing to work hard when you align with your person so that the “ball can go in” and you aren’t out here HOPING the love you desire will figure itself out on its own.

Be encouraged, be accountable, and be focused on the love you desire because if little ol’ me can achieve 100 episodes of a show that was created from a thought, I know that you can achieve anything you desire in this life…happy & healthy love included! Enjoy episode 100 below!