Are You Healing or Nah?
Is anyone out there working on healing, in any capacity, or is it just me?
We tend to think that healing is some race with a finish line. Itβs like we are in the throws of it running towards the imaginary finish line called HEALED OR we think we are all better and all the way HEALED completely. HA! Healing is neither here nor there. Healing is everywhere. Healing should be a part of our being like breathing. Life has so many ebbs and flows, so many peaks and valleys. How could we possibly maneuver this life, in a healthy way, and think that healing won’t be a constant and required part of it? It is. Whether we acknowledge it or not, it is.
But, what about honoring that middle space? That middle space of working on healing, being a work in progress, and still possibly being a mess at the same time?
I donβt know. Maybe itβs just me. Maybe not. Maybe itβs Maybelline. I donβt know. But, if you have that middle space, donβt forget to honor it too because it needs you… way more than a relationship or a boo.
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P.S. Our goal is for us all to support one another on this journey of healing and it starts with US. Stay tuned for a deeper dive into this conversation on the Instagram of @tobesingleornottobe with a live conversation on 3/11/21.