WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO…FOR LOVE?

In the words of the great philosopher Rihanna, what are you willing to do? For love that is. The love you say you want. The love you say you desire. The love you you’re ready for…allegedly. If we’re being honest, sometime as women, we often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of laziness when it comes to love. We may say we want a fulfilling relationship, but we don’t always put in the effort to make it happen because a real relationship is a lot like a job. You have to clock in and do the work for it every single day if you want to be rewarded at the highest level in return. But fear not, there are steps we can take along the way to remove the laziness that we sometime exude and start creating the relationship we truly want.

Firstly, it’s important to take a step back and assess what we really want in a relationship. This means being honest with ourselves about our values, standards, boundaries, non negotiables, and priorities. Once we have a clear understanding of what we want, we can start taking action towards achieving these relationship goals with potential partners. This may include putting ourselves out there more, being more proactive in dating, or addressing any personal issues that may be holding us back.

Secondly, we need to be willing to put in the work required to create a healthy and fulfilling relationship. This means being open and honest with our partners, communicating effectively, and making time for each other while not neglecting ourselves in the process especially in the early stages of the dating space. It also means being willing to compromise and work through any challenges that may arise.

Lastly, it’s important to remember that creating a fulfilling relationship is an ongoing process. It requires ongoing effort and commitment from both partners. By being proactive and putting in the work required, we can create the relationship we truly want and deserve.

Stopping laziness in relationships requires us to be honest with ourselves, be willing to put in the work consistently, and be committed to ongoing growth and development. By taking these steps, we can create the fulfilling and loving relationship we have always dreamed of and the ones we truly desire!